http://marriagemateforum.forumotion.com/controlling-spouse-f88/-t1.htm Sat, 02 May 2009 02:10:23 GMT 10 http://i89.servimg.com/u/f89/13/79/35/00/not_ha10.gif http://marriagemateforum.forumotion.com/controlling-spouse-f88/-t1.htm http://marriagemateforum.forumotion.com/controlling-spouse-f88/passive-control-t69.htm Anonymous Yelling people are obviously control fiends, but I'm convinced that the most controlling person is the one who absolutely refuses to talk or to make concessions. Stubborn silent treatment and withdrawal is a person's way of saying that you can't get through no matter how right or clean your ideas may be. My biggest problem is in not biting when my wife sets me up with her quiet stubbornness. Controlling Spouse Sat, 02 May 2009 02:10:23 GMT http://marriagemateforum.forumotion.com/controlling-spouse-f88/passive-control-t69.htm#194 http://marriagemateforum.forumotion.com/controlling-spouse-f88/passive-control-t69.htm http://marriagemateforum.forumotion.com/controlling-spouse-f88/money-issues-t51.htm Anonymous My husband's big issue is money. He makes good money and we have never been without. Every Monday he gives me just enough cash to cover the groceries and "play money" which includes things like make-up, cleaning supplies, gas, and so forth. If he thinks I waste money on something he deducts that amount from the next week's cash. I have no idea how much money he makes. I have no idea what we have in investments. He won't let me have a credit card. I do know that our house, our lake house, ... Controlling Spouse Thu, 30 Apr 2009 01:32:34 GMT http://marriagemateforum.forumotion.com/controlling-spouse-f88/money-issues-t51.htm#143 http://marriagemateforum.forumotion.com/controlling-spouse-f88/money-issues-t51.htm