http://marriagemateforum.forumotion.com/detachment-withdrawal-f71/-t1.htm Thu, 21 May 2009 17:41:12 GMT 10 http://i89.servimg.com/u/f89/13/79/35/00/not_ha10.gif http://marriagemateforum.forumotion.com/detachment-withdrawal-f71/-t1.htm http://marriagemateforum.forumotion.com/detachment-withdrawal-f71/couldn-t-keep-it-up-t106.htm Anonymous When my husband and I dated and then married, he couldn't keep his hands off of me because he was so enamored with me. He'd buy me cards and flowers for no particular reason and he was always attentive. That was 15 years and 2 kids ago. Now I could walk around the house all day naked and he wouldn't even notice. He and I don't have very stimulating conversations. We don't argue much but that's because we just don't engage. I guess I'm saying to those who are in the new phases of a relationship, ... Detachment/Withdrawal Thu, 21 May 2009 17:41:12 GMT http://marriagemateforum.forumotion.com/detachment-withdrawal-f71/couldn-t-keep-it-up-t106.htm#328 http://marriagemateforum.forumotion.com/detachment-withdrawal-f71/couldn-t-keep-it-up-t106.htm http://marriagemateforum.forumotion.com/detachment-withdrawal-f71/my-husband-isn-t-the-same-t64.htm Anonymous My husband has always worked around cars, so you can imagine that with the economy he isn't doing very well. I have a job and it barely keeps the bills paid but at least we haven't missed any meals and we are holding onto our house. My husband is really depressed and won't come out of the bedroom. He just sits and stares at the TV. Nothing I can say will put him in a good mood. I'm worried because this is not like him. He won't go to a doctor or a counseler because he says we can't afford it. ... Detachment/Withdrawal Fri, 01 May 2009 22:07:33 GMT http://marriagemateforum.forumotion.com/detachment-withdrawal-f71/my-husband-isn-t-the-same-t64.htm#187 http://marriagemateforum.forumotion.com/detachment-withdrawal-f71/my-husband-isn-t-the-same-t64.htm