http://marriagemateforum.forumotion.com/separation-f52/-t1.htm Wed, 03 Jun 2009 15:03:58 GMT 10 http://i89.servimg.com/u/f89/13/79/35/00/not_ha10.gif http://marriagemateforum.forumotion.com/separation-f52/-t1.htm http://marriagemateforum.forumotion.com/separation-f52/asking-my-husband-for-a-separation-t120.htm Anonymous My husband has had an affair and this is the second time this has happened. The first was over ten years ago and he was very remorseful at the time, telling me it would never happen again. Now I am at a very low point and I'm struggling to find the motivation to stay with a man that I cannot trust. I have asked him to leave the house for a couple of months so we can get counseling and sort this out. He refuses to leave, saying it is his house too. I feel it is reasonable to ask for this time ... Separation Wed, 03 Jun 2009 15:03:58 GMT http://marriagemateforum.forumotion.com/separation-f52/asking-my-husband-for-a-separation-t120.htm#372 http://marriagemateforum.forumotion.com/separation-f52/asking-my-husband-for-a-separation-t120.htm