http://marriagemateforum.forumotion.com/affairs-infidelity-f17/-t1.htm Thu, 23 Apr 2009 19:26:08 GMT 10 http://i89.servimg.com/u/f89/13/79/35/00/not_ha10.gif http://marriagemateforum.forumotion.com/affairs-infidelity-f17/-t1.htm http://marriagemateforum.forumotion.com/affairs-infidelity-f17/lagging-post-affair-issues-t28.htm Anonymous About ten months ago, Jane learned that Bob had been in a four month affair with a woman at work. For about a month Bob expressed true regret and made all the right moves to illustrate that he would never see or speak with the woman again. Accountability procedures were put into plan, they went to counseling, and Bob seemed contrite and embarrassed about the whole matter. As the time passed, Jane would still experience bouts of despair and would express her fears and anger toward Bob. For ... Affairs/Infidelity Sat, 18 Apr 2009 12:38:37 GMT http://marriagemateforum.forumotion.com/affairs-infidelity-f17/lagging-post-affair-issues-t28.htm#48 http://marriagemateforum.forumotion.com/affairs-infidelity-f17/lagging-post-affair-issues-t28.htm http://marriagemateforum.forumotion.com/affairs-infidelity-f17/my-husband-is-unfair-t41.htm Anonymous I have had the worst year of my life. A few months ago I had a one night stand with a man when I was out of town for business. (I rarely travel.) My husband found out about it and has been on the warpath. He has called me every name in the book. Wants to go over the details time after time. He says he can't forgive me for being so gullible. Yet ten years ago he had two affairs, one lasting six months. When I bring that up he says its not the same because that was before he became a Christian. ... Affairs/Infidelity Thu, 23 Apr 2009 13:00:24 GMT http://marriagemateforum.forumotion.com/affairs-infidelity-f17/my-husband-is-unfair-t41.htm#91 http://marriagemateforum.forumotion.com/affairs-infidelity-f17/my-husband-is-unfair-t41.htm http://marriagemateforum.forumotion.com/affairs-infidelity-f17/confronting-the-other-woman-t42.htm Anonymous About a week ago my husband confessed (after being caught) that he had an affair with a woman from his work. Apparently it lasted several months, although he won't go into details. One of the things I told him I want to do is confront the other woman. He says that would make a bad situation worse. He says he wants to stay married, but he would reconsider staying if I talked to her. I say that in order to have some accountability it is fair game for me to see her face to face and let her know ... Affairs/Infidelity Thu, 23 Apr 2009 19:26:08 GMT http://marriagemateforum.forumotion.com/affairs-infidelity-f17/confronting-the-other-woman-t42.htm#99 http://marriagemateforum.forumotion.com/affairs-infidelity-f17/confronting-the-other-woman-t42.htm http://marriagemateforum.forumotion.com/affairs-infidelity-f17/my-wife-s-old-flame-t36.htm Anonymous My wife of 13 years went to a high school reunion and met up with her old flame. For the last several months they have been in communication. She point blank told me that he was the love of her life and that the only reason they didn't marry years ago was that he moved out of state. Now she wants to pursue the possibility of reconnecting with him. He still lives out of state. He has kids and so do we, and the whole idea would be disasterous. I can't forbid her from contacting with her. I don't ... Affairs/Infidelity Mon, 20 Apr 2009 18:26:55 GMT http://marriagemateforum.forumotion.com/affairs-infidelity-f17/my-wife-s-old-flame-t36.htm#63 http://marriagemateforum.forumotion.com/affairs-infidelity-f17/my-wife-s-old-flame-t36.htm http://marriagemateforum.forumotion.com/affairs-infidelity-f17/my-wife-is-throwing-me-under-the-bus-t9.htm Anonymous I am separated from my wife and it looks like we will divorce. I haven't been a perfect husband, but my flaws are relatively minor compared to what I've heard from others. My wife had a four month affair that led her to decide she wanted a new kind of man to be with. Here is my problem. She is now telling many people that the reason we are divorcing is my anger. Apparently everyone who knows about our split has heard this. I could damage her a lot by telling all the problems she has contributed ... Affairs/Infidelity Tue, 07 Apr 2009 01:23:19 GMT http://marriagemateforum.forumotion.com/affairs-infidelity-f17/my-wife-is-throwing-me-under-the-bus-t9.htm#16 http://marriagemateforum.forumotion.com/affairs-infidelity-f17/my-wife-is-throwing-me-under-the-bus-t9.htm