http://marriagemateforum.forumotion.com/womanizing-f102/-t1.htm Sat, 30 May 2009 21:40:05 GMT 10 http://i89.servimg.com/u/f89/13/79/35/00/not_ha10.gif http://marriagemateforum.forumotion.com/womanizing-f102/-t1.htm http://marriagemateforum.forumotion.com/womanizing-f102/what-i-should-keep-to-myself-t84.htm Anonymous A friend of my husband told him that he had an affair recently but he swore my husband to secrecy. It slipped out when he and I were having a conversation about the friend, and now I am sickened on behalf of the guy's wife. I've known her for a long time, and if it were me in her position, I'd want to know what's going on. But I can't say anything to either one of them about it, because my husband promised he wouldn't tell. I am a fixer and it is driving me nuts that I can't fix this. Womanizing Mon, 04 May 2009 20:18:50 GMT http://marriagemateforum.forumotion.com/womanizing-f102/what-i-should-keep-to-myself-t84.htm#234 http://marriagemateforum.forumotion.com/womanizing-f102/what-i-should-keep-to-myself-t84.htm http://marriagemateforum.forumotion.com/womanizing-f102/brother-s-affair-t113.htm Anonymous I recently learned that my brother and his wife are separated because he'd had a fairly lengthy affair (4 months). I am devestated because I had always looked up to him. I really like my sister in law and they have great kids. I suspect it will end up in divorce and it angers me greatly that his poor choices will effect our entire future of family gatherings. We want to keep close to his wife but they live in another state and it will be less than easy. I just wish he (and others like him) would ... Womanizing Sat, 30 May 2009 21:40:05 GMT http://marriagemateforum.forumotion.com/womanizing-f102/brother-s-affair-t113.htm#364 http://marriagemateforum.forumotion.com/womanizing-f102/brother-s-affair-t113.htm http://marriagemateforum.forumotion.com/womanizing-f102/covering-for-my-husband-t101.htm Anonymous My husband is very active in church and community activities and he has always enjoyed a very positive reputation. What no one knows is that he had an affair several years ago and while we were able to hold the marriage together, it hasn't been the same since. We cope and we are good parents. It is not unusual for someone to say to me (sometimes in front of him) how they admire him. People see him as a person of integrity. When they say this, I smile and say Yes he's a great guy. Inside though ... Womanizing Fri, 08 May 2009 01:16:19 GMT http://marriagemateforum.forumotion.com/womanizing-f102/covering-for-my-husband-t101.htm#273 http://marriagemateforum.forumotion.com/womanizing-f102/covering-for-my-husband-t101.htm http://marriagemateforum.forumotion.com/womanizing-f102/my-dad-was-a-womanizer-t53.htm Anonymous my dad was a womanizer and i can't help but see that that is one of my problems. when i was married i tried not to do this in front of my wife because i didn't want to hurt her feelings (i did cheat on her a few times over our 14 year marriage, eventually i withdrew from her for a myriad of reasons and she filed for divorce). i now find that i have committment problems in new relationships, part of it is my mistrust of women, part of it is i'm tired of being hurt. as a result, i tend to date ... Womanizing Thu, 30 Apr 2009 18:53:24 GMT http://marriagemateforum.forumotion.com/womanizing-f102/my-dad-was-a-womanizer-t53.htm#158 http://marriagemateforum.forumotion.com/womanizing-f102/my-dad-was-a-womanizer-t53.htm